I’ve eased up on the texts (just in case I was overwhelming him), but for the times I really want to hear from him can you tell me how to get him to text me back? From the moment I’m up to maybe an hour or two before I go to bed, chances are I’m working… Neediness is crippling to the quality of any relationship (whether it’s a guy or woman acting needy) and it’s something you need to prevent from creeping into your mind at all costs. Personally, I don’t ignore needy texts out of cruelty – I ignore them because it’s an insatiable relationship monster that I don’t ever want to feed (metaphorically speaking). If a girl wants to flirt with me over text and send me sexy pictures, I’m all over that. Be a woman that he loves to text because his life is more fun and more full with you perking him up.Let me start off by saying that if you’ve ever read anything by me, you know that honesty is my brand and I don’t sugarcoat my messages. I’ve never portrayed myself as a saint and when it comes to sexting… that’s something I don’t mind dropping everything for. And if you think I’m being a pig with what I just said, I challenge you to find a man who disagrees – even the most feminized, wouldn’t-hurt-a-fly, harmless man would agree that if there’s a sexy girl sending him some alluring messages, you can be sure he’ll be all over that. However, my overall message here isn’t so superficial to suggest that sexting is the answer to all text message dilemmas. Orient your mind towards giving him what he likes, not on what you want to get from him. Is His Texting Style His Habit or a Troubled Relationship Symptom?They start free blogs slating off every Turkish man they know and then join numerous amounts of forums to declare to the world that all Turkish men are sleazeballs and should never be trusted.So when thinking about Turkish men, I type this post in despair.
For some, the holiday romance does not work out and they move on.I’m prefacing my immediate answer with that disclosure because I don’t want you to mistake my bluntness for rudeness. Now before you march to my South Beach condo with a burning pitchfork, let me explain. I can’t express in words what a breath of fresh air it is when a sexy woman appears on my phone and her fundamental message is: I want you to feel good. What I’m really driving at is if you want him to respond quickly to your texts and love texting you, then make the experience of texting you . Men love when someone makes their day lighter and simpler, not heavier and more complex. You’d be amazed at the number of questions I get about guys and texting.Everything I’m saying is with the intent to help you… In terms of you wanting him to text you back, my most blunt question is: What’s there to gain and what’s there to lose? One of the first questions I ask is, “How is your relationship when you’re together?It went from him showering me with attention and affection to him not responding to texts for hours. Before you know it, minutes turn to hours and daylight turns to past-midnight… I’m a considerate guy, but when I’m dealing with thirteen crises during my work day and a girl is texting me about how I should be texting her more and giving her more attention… I’ve talked about neediness so many times before that I don’t feel like explaining it in great depth, but I’ll reiterate to say: Neediness is a state of mind, not any specific action or actions.I don’t know what changed but I have this horrible feeling I screwed something up or maybe I’m bugging him. So throughout the day, I get texts from all different people. It’s the feeling that if you don’t get some kind of emotional reassurance or validation from another person, then you won’t be “OK”.